Interpersonal skills: An effective way to communicate

Submitted by admin on Sun, 10/09/2011 - 22:52

In Chapter 5 of 10 in her 2011 Capture Your Flag interview with host Erik Michielsen, director and filmmaker Tricia Regan addresses a weakness - interpersonal communication skills - to strengthen her leadership skills. After multiple films, Regan learns the technical skills required in shooting, directing, and producing. She then works on how to better interface with those around her who challenge her vision. She recognizes her need to accept responsibility and the need to find better ways to communicate with her team. Regan is an Emmy-Award winning filmmaker. She directed, produced and shot "Autism: The Musical." When not shooting documentary films, Regan has worked as a director, producer, and writer at ABC, NBC, FOX, and Lifetime. She earned a bachelors from Binghamton University and masters from New York University. View more career videos at www.captureyourflag.com Follow us on Twitter www.twitter.com Like us on Facebook: www.facebook.com


When you are in business or in a job, you must have effective communication interpersonal skills, business ethics and must know how to motivate staff of your company to do better. These are few things which are considered to be the qualities of a good corporate person. If you think you are not good enough in any of these, there are many organizations that would help you out in building a strong team of yours. Read on to know more.

An understanding of others and their thoughts is known as interpersonal intelligence and having good communication skills is not a cake on the walk. You have to be very patient and calm when you deal with people around you. For an effective conversation with someone or within a group, all the people involved must agree on each other's views. Skill of communicating in social environment is the real definition of communication interpersonal skills. When you are an owner of a big company, first and foremost you must have business ethics, because without them a businessman can never make a genuine company. And when you employee someone, you must know how to motivate staff of your company. There is a very famous saying that a company is made by its employees. You must take care of each and every person working under you.

Here are some tips for how to motivate staff of your company: Share your vision with them, value their feedback, interact with them regularly, reward them, appraisals, and involve them in team activities. These things would boost the morale of your employee and will ask them to perform better.

It has been seen that organizations have a set of business ethics have performed exceedingly well and have got great chances of survival in any crisis. These ethics affect your company directly or indirectly in many ways, for example, profit maximization, efficient utilization of business resources and also create goodwill in the market and many other things.

There are many agencies which provide workshops for learning business ethics, ways for how to motivate staff, ways of communication interpersonal skills and Mind Resources is one of the leading organizations in this field. These agencies make you and your employees understand the current scenario of the market and motivate you to perform better. Many leading organizations have performed better by taking learning resources from these agencies. So, what are you waiting for, they  are worth giving a shot, try them out.

12 Barriers to Effective Communication - Beware of These Relationship Killers

Submitted by admin on Wed, 09/07/2011 - 15:49

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There are 12 barriers to effective communication that destroys any type of relationship. Be sure to overcome these roadblocks if you want happy relationships.

1. Criticizing. Criticism involves judgmental states that usually put down a person. "Don't do it that way", "You're wrong", "You're not very good at...", and "You need to lose weight" are a few simple criticisms. We think criticism changes people, though it only reveals our own problems. Kill this barrier before it kills your relationships.

2. Labeling. Labels are names. An extreme form of labels is name-calling. "You're a jerk", "You are silly", and "I think you're mean" are some examples of labeling. Labeling is a barrier to communication because it categorizes people. It assumes people to have characteristics and destroys uniqueness that makes an enjoyable relationship.

3. Diagnosing. A diagnosis is one of the more complex barriers to effective communication. It involves reading into a person's behavior. I call it "playing the amateur psychologist". Some examples of the diagnosing barrier are: "You're just jealous about...", "You need to be happier", and "Stop trying to antagonize me."

4. Praising. People are always surprised when they hear praise is a communication barrier. Praise is not always a barrier because it depends on how it is given. Praise is so often poorly given as it makes people - especially children - dependent on receiving verbal rewards. "You're a good boy", "I love you for doing what you did", and "You're a lovely person because you think about me". Learn to praise a person's behavior, and be specific, to avoid evaluative praise and making people dependent on your praise.

5. Ordering. Orders are controlling statements to get people doing something. They are akin to dictatorship. "Go wash the dishes", "Stop complaining", and "Stop fighting with..." Orders force people to comply based on authoritative power. The result is resistant change and resentment. It is very common for people to rebel against orders so they regain their freedom. Psychologists call this "psychological reactance".

6. Threatening. A threat is similar to an order, except it has emphasis on punishment. "Go wash the dishes or I won't cook for you tomorrow night", "Stop complaining or you'll be sent to your room", "Stop fighting with... or you'll be grounded". Just like orders, threats create fear, temporary results, and resentment - while killing a relationship.

7. Questioning. How could questioning be a barrier to effective communication? Like praise, there are types of questioning that make it a roadblock to good relationship communication. Rhetorical questions is one common form of poor questioning. Examples include, "Why do you disobey me?" "Why do you always do wrong?" and "What about my needs? You constantly ignore them."

These are 7 of 12 barriers to effective communication. When you overcome all 12 barriers to effective communication, you communicate openly, intimately, understand you're partner - all the while creating change in your relationships.



Joshua Uebergang